I believe that you are the smartest person in the world about you. No one else knows what you know about yourself, your feelings, your thoughts, your desires. In order to reach outside of your comfort zone, you are going to have to get uncomfortable. You are going to have to dig deep down and really get to know yourself.
I will ask you specifically crafted questions to help you to learn more about what you are really thinking and feeling. Once you have figured that out then we will figure out where you want to go from there and what is the best way to go about getting there. One small step at a time.